Upcoming Events

XL Bears: Truth or Bare [04/19]

Truth or Bear is a Strip Game show hosted by XL Bears Founder Shaun Shaffer with cohost and human piece of trash Fisty Bidet (Butch Alice but with worse makeup). Round by round our players and contenders will get down to their Skivvies playing outrageous games, challenges of will and fortitude, and nonsense shenanigans.

The Theme for the show is “Beach Party Gone Horribly Gay” Dress Appropriately.

This is an 18+ Party. Join us afterwards for our Underbear Dance party “Robosexhomosex on the Beach”!

Surfs up Bears.

Join us at Copious @ 7PM!


Robosex Homosex~ On the Beach [04/19]

Join DJ Robosex Homosex for a Beach themed Underwear Party! Come Dance and Party with XL Bears!

Join us at Copious @ 9:30PM!


XL Bear Bust: DIY Hanky Code [04/27]

Join XL Bears for their monthly Bear Bust at CC Attles!
Our April Theme is DIY Hanky Code.

Are your kinks more specific than just a normal "off the rack" Hanky can offer? Is finding just that right shade of blue inhibiting your expression and exploration out at the club? WELL- Join XL BEARS for "DIY HANKY CODE" We're creating our own Hanky Code, Hankies, Colors and codes to let people Know that you are a total freak in the sheets for Season 2 of "Fringe" or have a total turn on for Tires, or get hot an heavy for Hulk Hogan. We invite you to embark on a weird night full of laughs, and who knows? Maybe someone else shares our Burlap Fetish.... Anyone.....ANYONE??

Join us at C.C. Attle's @ 8PM!

21+, Bar, Accessible

Spa Day [04/28]

What better way to end a bear bust weekend than some relaxation and rejuvenation at a Korean Spa.

Join us at Palace Spa in Federal way for some much needed pampering. $25 is the Spa's entrance fee and you can add extra services.

If this is your first time at a Korean Spa, we have guys who have been who can show you what to do and give you a primer for the different amenities this Korean spa has to offer.

Join us at Palace Spa @ 3PM!

18+, $

XL Bears Game Day [05/05]

First Sundays!
Join XL Bears at our favorite Gay owned and operated Coffee Shop for Board games chocolate, coffee and fun! Bring a game to share!

Join us at the Intrigue Chocolate & Coffeehouse @ 6PM!

All Ages, Accessible

Ghost House (Rifftrax Movie Night) [05/06]

What's more Quintessentially Queer than finding something better left forgotten in the detritus of American Culture -- a housekeeping short for 50's moms, a wanna-be Charlie's Angels disco heist from the 70's, a bewilderingly incompetent melodrama from the 00's -- and mocking it mercilessly? And who's better at mocking it than Rifftrax? Join Rob and XL Bears for monthly Rifftrax night -- first Monday of each month -- for two hours of pay-what-you-want fun!

Tonight's Cocktail: Shake Hands With Danger

Join us at Copious @ 7:30PM!

All Ages, Accessible

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Lifelong and XL Bears Toy Drive!

We made our goal and made a lot of kids happy this holiday, thanks to all those who contributed to the toy drive, especially Southgate Roller Rink! We really appreciate your efforts!

We'll be doing this again this year, so please keep a look out!

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